Wednesday, March 28, 2007

Hello readers and welcome to my blog. I did not post anything 'interesting' nowadays and decided to post something today!

I would like to ask a question in turn before I began: Is it a bit too hard, or even IMPOSSIBLE to request everyone to like a person? After thinking about it, I realised that it is IMPOSSIBLE for a person to have everyone to like him or her.

People judge other people differently. Nobody in the world is alike in terms of character and personality. Because of that different people judge different people 'differently' because of the big difference in our character. In order to make things less confusing, let me show you some examples...

Example 1:

A--> Weird but friendly
B--> Nice but very bossy
C--> Have alot of friends but has a slight attitude problem
D--> Very friendly but has no friends
E--> Nice and freindly, but a bit stuck up


If these five people are your choices of friends, who will you go to? Alot of people will instinctively choose D because of character, but the worse part is that the person might have a motive being so friendly, often misunderstood as 'PRETENDING'. As for A and B, they will have roughly the same surroundings. A and B are hence classified to be a typical human being. As everyone always say to cheer up people: No One In The World is PERFECT. People can never request every single person out there to like him or her. People like that will be E. If you say someone is stuckup, it simply means he or she is a little bigheaded and full of oneself. That's why these people are often overwhelmed by a stupid thinking that everyone will like them, but of course that's only their wishful thinking...

C is the kind of people that we will see once in a while. People will always have the mindset that if a person has a ATTITUDE problem, he or she is not likely to have any friends around them. But they didn't realise that ATTITUDE is a bit different from CHARACTER. Attitude is the way you behave, whereas character is the qualities of a human being that adds up to oneself. Although these people has a slight attitude problem, the way they PRESENT themselves is important because that will determine how this person will look as a whole. No point saying that why people like So-and-so but he or she has a attitude problem... It will only waste your time thinking about anything apart from the WAY HE/SHE PRESENTED HIMSELF/HERSELF.

B is the sort of people who will usually lead other people. B is also someone we respect because of what they had done for people around them. You may argue that B having bossiness is a sucky attitude problem, but hey! B is actually a kind of people you can rely on! I know that I may sound nonsensical, but that is what has been happening around us. It is however a little bit hard to explain as a human's mind can NEVER be read. As stated by so-called experts out there, people who claim that they can read a human's mind are all rubbish. There's never a guarantee that the person you think you know very well is that kind of person you think it is, and hence this is a very profound problem that neither can be solved nor can have a true answer...


Well to round up all the garbage I have just typed, basically you can never tell how or what a human's mind is thinking at a moment. You can't simply point a finger at a person and say that he or she is a horrific person, just because that's what you think it is! Well this issue could be continued if I have more but nevertheless that's all I have right now... Share and Enjoy!!!
I posted at 7:22 PM